Every time we
have gatherings or happenings or festivals or barroom brawls, we have
encounters.
Whether it be
a church social or a luxury cruise or a doctor visit or some office-required
occasion, we have encounters.
The other day
at the Tummy Temple I had several encounters.
There was Pat
(from her name tag). She has been there for some time and we’ve struck up some
brief conversations in passing. Pat is a short woman with blonde hair and
wearing a blue jacket who is directing other blue shirts on task at hand. She
also seems to be the management’s customer service person that hands balloons
to children and helping the elderly process the confusion of purchasing
sustenance. I recognize her and she recognize me as a frequent flyer and we kid
with each other for a moment both leaving with a laugh.
On my travels
I always look for a pleasant smile. There are too many faces seemingly
disturbed by whatever I cannot control or understand, so a smile welcomes the
day to sunshine.
Any
gathering, whether work related or socially required, there are interactions
between people. Some are strangers. Some are forgotten friends. Some sort of
substance abuse seems necessary to break down the defensive social barriers.
Think about
getting onto a transportation device. Do you talk to the person sitting next to
you for hours? Do you put on earphones and ignore the person sitting inches
away?
A social
occasion with old friends for a celebration of an anniversary, grandkids
birthday, holiday gathering or family reunion means you have to have encounters
with society.
Individual
small talk usually starts with how we are fairing. Thus the descriptions of our
physical pains and woes become the immediate topic.
Unless there
is some new and adventurous occasion that has happened, the conversation
quickly drifts to children or purchases to divert the listener from the visual
observation and evaluation of the other participant.
Going to a
restaurant is nothing but encounters. The maitre d’ may find your appearance
acceptable and sliding a few dead presidents will get you a table away from the
crash traffic that are restaurants. Your service may be primed or if you decide
to be belligerent, your food will arrive cold, your water will not be refilled
and your check will become late. No matter the tip, the experience was a
disaster.
Walk into a
party or a business establishes looking for a romantic connection as an
encounter. No matter the number of text or tweets, an encounter requires a
face-to-face appearance.
Had an
encounter with a girl stacking the shelves at the Tummy Temple. She caught my
eye as a different sort, seemingly in control but different that the other blue
shirts. Not quiet Goth, but dressed dark. She said she was a ‘vendor’ not a
contractor but I don’t know the difference of the meaning. She spoke of not
being happy in her task but was there day after day. She once noticed me and
gave me a smile.
That is all I
ask.
Some
encounters can change your life. Some encounters may get you a job. Some
encounters may get you in trouble. Some encounters may get you laid.
As I was
leaving, a dark gentleman came staggering toward the door as I was exiting.
Wearing a white tee shirt and baggy jeans and a black backpack he shuffled
toward the passageway as I weaved around him. “Give me a beer”, he slurred as I
avoided his attention. “NO!” I responded and went about my duties, but he
didn’t want it to stop. He mumbled something that I ignored but then walked
over to me. I said something about ‘Go inside they have lots of beer in there’.
(Remember 9:00AM) He said something about ‘just forget I ever said anything’
and held his fist up. I finished putting on my glove and gave him a fist bump
that knocked him backward. I pointed to a sign on the light pole and said, “Do
you see that? It says no loitering. You want the guy with the type on the side
of his car to come by and take you home?” My new best friend just stared into
space unaware of cognition. I rode off and said ‘Have a nice day’ and he
replied ‘You too’ and the encounter was over.
This
encounter could have gone many different ways and I don’t know what ever
happened to the fella, but that is how those brief moments in life goes.
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