Sunday, February 24, 2019

You Are Not Old Enough


There seems to be a law against age?
The other day our current governor of the commonwealth has signed a new law rising the age from 18 -> 21 years of age for those allowed to purchase (and thus the use) of a pack of cigarettes or cigars or alternative nicotine products.

There is no preemption language present in state law keeping localities from raising the Minimum Legal Sales Age (MLSA) to 21

Here is a synopsis of the new law:

HB 2748 Tobacco products, nicotine vapor products, etc.; purchase, possession, and sale.
Purchase, possession, and sale of tobacco products, nicotine vapor products, and alternative nicotine products; minimum age requirements; penalties. Increases the minimum age for persons prohibited from purchasing or possessing tobacco products, nicotine vapor products, and alternative nicotine products, and the minimum age for persons such products can be sold to, from 18 years of age to 21 years of age with an exception for active duty military personnel. The bill also allows tobacco products, nicotine vapor products, and alternative nicotine products to be sold from a vending machine if there is posted notice of the minimum age requirements and the machine is located in a place that is not open to the general public and not generally accessible to persons under 21 years of age. Under current law, tobacco products may be sold from a vending machine if there is posted notice of the minimum age requirements and the machine is located in a place that is not open to the general public and not generally accessible to minors. This bill is identical to SB 1727. 

Here is a detail of what the General Assembly of Virginia passed and the governor signed:

VIRGINIA ACTS OF ASSEMBLY -- CHAPTER
An Act to amend and reenact §§ 18.2-246.8, 18.2-246.10, and 18.2-371.2 of the Code of Virginia, relating to purchase, possession, and sale of tobacco products, nicotine vapor products, and alternative nicotine products; minimum age requirements; penalties.
[H 2748]
Approved

Be it enacted by the General Assembly of Virginia:
1. That §§ 18.2-246.8, 18.2-246.10, and 18.2-371.2 of the Code of Virginia are amended and reenacted as follows:
§ 18.2-246.8. Age verification requirements.
A. No person shall mail, ship, or otherwise deliver cigarettes in connection with a delivery sale unless prior to the first delivery sale to a consumer such person:
1. Obtains from the prospective consumer a certification that includes (i) a reliable confirmation that the consumer is at least the legal minimum purchase age, and (ii) a statement signed by the prospective consumer in writing that certifies the prospective consumer's address and that the consumer is at least 18 21 years of age. Such statement shall also confirm (a) that the prospective consumer understands that signing another person's name to such certification is illegal, (b) that the sale of cigarettes to individuals under the legal minimum purchase age is illegal, and (c) that the purchase of cigarettes by individuals under the legal minimum purchase age is illegal under the laws of the Commonwealth;
2. Makes a good faith effort to verify the information contained in the certification provided by the prospective consumer pursuant to subsection A against a commercially available database of valid, government-issued identification that contains the date of birth or age of the individual placing the order, or obtains a photocopy or other image of the valid, government-issued identification stating the date of birth or age of the individual placing the order;
3. Provides to the prospective consumer, via e-mail or other means, a notice that meets the requirements of § 18.2-246.9; and
4. Receives payment for the delivery sale from the prospective consumer by a credit or debit card that has been issued in such consumer's name or by a check drawn on the consumer's account.
B. Persons accepting purchase orders made via the Internet for delivery sales may request that prospective consumers provide their e-mail addresses.
§ 18.2-246.10. Shipping requirements.
Each person who mails, ships, or otherwise delivers cigarettes in connection with a delivery sale:
1. Shall include as part of the shipping documents a clear and conspicuous statement providing as follows: "Cigarettes: Virginia Law Prohibits Shipping to Individuals Under 18 21, and Requires the Payment of all Applicable Taxes";
2. Shall use a method of mailing, shipping, or delivery that obligates the delivery service or any party making delivery to require (i) the consumer placing the purchase order for the delivery sale, or an adult of legal minimum purchase age, to sign to accept delivery of the shipping container, and (ii) proof, in the form of a valid, government-issued identification bearing a photograph of the individual who signs to accept delivery of the shipping container, demonstrating that he is either the addressee who is of legal minimum purchase age or another adult of legal minimum purchase age. However, proof of the legal minimum purchase age shall be required only if such individual appears to be under 27 years of age; and
3. Shall provide to the delivery service retained for such delivery sale evidence of full compliance with § 18.2-246.12.
§ 18.2-371.2. Prohibiting purchase or possession of tobacco products, nicotine vapor products, and alternative nicotine products by a person under 21 years of age or sale of tobacco products, nicotine vapor products, and alternative nicotine products to persons under 21 years of age.
A. No person shall sell to, distribute to, purchase for, or knowingly permit the purchase by any person less than 18 21 years of age, knowing or having reason to believe that such person is less than 18 21 years of age, any tobacco product, nicotine vapor product, or alternative nicotine product.
Tobacco products, nicotine vapor products, and alternative nicotine products may be sold from a vending machine only if the machine is (i) posted with a notice, in a conspicuous manner and place, indicating that the purchase or possession of tobacco products by minors persons under 21 years of age is unlawful and (ii) located in a place which that is not open to the general public and is not generally accessible to minors persons under 21 years of age. An establishment which that prohibits the presence of minors persons under 21 years of age unless accompanied by an adult a person 21 years of age or older is not open to the general public.
B. No person less than 18 21 years of age shall attempt to purchase, purchase, or possess any tobacco product, nicotine vapor product, or alternative nicotine product. The provisions of this subsection shall not be applicable to the possession of tobacco products, nicotine vapor products, or alternative nicotine products by a person less than 18 21 years of age making a delivery of tobacco products, nicotine vapor products, or alternative nicotine products in pursuance of his employment. This subsection shall not apply to purchase, attempt to purchase, or possession by a law-enforcement officer or his agent when the same is necessary in the performance of his duties.
C. No person shall sell a tobacco product, nicotine vapor product, or alternative nicotine product to any individual who does not demonstrate, by producing a driver's license or similar photo identification issued by a government agency, that the individual is at least 18 21 years of age. Such identification is not required from an individual whom the person has reason to believe is at least 18 21 years of age or who the person knows is at least 18 21 years of age. Proof that the person demanded, was shown, and reasonably relied upon a photo identification stating that the individual was at least 18 21 years of age shall be a defense to any action brought under this subsection. In determining whether a person had reason to believe an individual is at least 18 21 years of age, the trier of fact may consider, but is not limited to, proof of the general appearance, facial characteristics, behavior, and manner of the individual.
This subsection shall not apply to mail order or Internet sales, provided that the person offering the tobacco product, nicotine vapor product, or alternative nicotine product for sale through mail order or the Internet (i) prior to the sale of the tobacco product, nicotine vapor product, or alternative nicotine product verifies that the purchaser is at least 18 21 years of age through a commercially available database that is regularly used by businesses or governmental entities for the purpose of age and identity verification and (ii) uses a method of mailing, shipping, or delivery that requires the signature of a person at least 18 21 years of age before the tobacco product, nicotine vapor product, or alternative nicotine product will be released to the purchaser.
D.  The provisions of subsections B and C shall not apply to the sale, giving, or furnishing of any tobacco product, nicotine vapor product, or alternative nicotine product to any active duty military personnel who are 18 years of age or older. An identification card issued by the Armed Forces of the United States shall be accepted as proof of age for this purpose.
E. A violation of subsection A or C by an individual or by a separate retail establishment that involves a nicotine vapor product, alternative nicotine product, or tobacco product other than a bidi is punishable by a civil penalty not to exceed $100 for a first violation, a civil penalty not to exceed $200 for a second violation, and a civil penalty not to exceed $500 for a third or subsequent violation.
A violation of subsection A or C by an individual or by a separate retail establishment that involves the sale, distribution, or purchase of a bidi is punishable by a civil penalty in the amount of $500 for a first violation, a civil penalty in the amount of $1,000 for a second violation, and a civil penalty in the amount of $2,500 for a third or subsequent violation. Where a defendant retail establishment offers proof that it has trained its employees concerning the requirements of this section, the court shall suspend all of the penalties imposed hereunder. However, where the court finds that a retail establishment has failed to so train its employees, the court may impose a civil penalty not to exceed $1,000 in lieu of any penalties imposed hereunder for a violation of subsection A or C involving a nicotine vapor product, alternative nicotine product, or tobacco product other than a bidi.
A violation of subsection B is punishable by a civil penalty not to exceed $100 for a first violation and a civil penalty not to exceed $250 for a second or subsequent violation. A court may, as an alternative to the civil penalty, and upon motion of the defendant, prescribe the performance of up to 20 hours of community service for a first violation of subsection B and up to 40 hours of community service for a second or subsequent violation. If the defendant fails or refuses to complete the community service as prescribed, the court may impose the civil penalty. Upon a violation of subsection B, the judge may enter an order pursuant to subdivision A 9 of § 16.1-278.8.
Any attorney for the Commonwealth of the county or city in which an alleged violation occurred may bring an action to recover the civil penalty, which shall be paid into the state treasury. Any law-enforcement officer may issue a summons for a violation of subsection A, B, or C.
E. F. 1. Cigarettes shall be sold only in sealed packages provided by the manufacturer, with the required health warning. The proprietor of every retail establishment that offers for sale any tobacco product, nicotine vapor product, or alternative nicotine product shall post in a conspicuous manner and place a sign or signs indicating that the sale of tobacco products, nicotine vapor products, or alternative nicotine products to any person under 18 21 years of age is prohibited by law. Any attorney for the county, city, or town in which an alleged violation of this subsection occurred may enforce this subsection by civil action to recover a civil penalty not to exceed $50. The civil penalty shall be paid into the local treasury. No filing fee or other fee or cost shall be charged to the county, city, or town which instituted the action.
2. For the purpose of compliance with regulations of the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration published at 61 Federal Register 1492, the Department of Agriculture and Consumer Services may promulgate regulations which allow the Department to undertake the activities necessary to comply with such regulations.
3. Any attorney for the county, city, or town in which an alleged violation of this subsection occurred may enforce this subsection by civil action to recover a civil penalty not to exceed $100. The civil penalty shall be paid into the local treasury. No filing fee or other fee or cost shall be charged to the county, city, or town which instituted the action.
F. G. Nothing in this section shall be construed to create a private cause of action.
G. H. Agents of the Virginia Alcoholic Beverage Control Authority designated pursuant to § 4.1-105 may issue a summons for any violation of this section.
H. I. As used in this section:
"Alternative nicotine product" means any noncombustible product containing nicotine that is intended for human consumption, whether chewed, absorbed, dissolved, or ingested by any other means. "Alternative nicotine product" does not include any nicotine vapor product, tobacco product, or product regulated as a drug or device by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) under Chapter V (21 U.S.C. § 351 et seq.) of the Federal Food, Drug, and Cosmetic Act.
"Bidi" means a product containing tobacco that is wrapped in temburni leaf (diospyros melanoxylon) or tendu leaf (diospyros exculpra), or any other product that is offered to, or purchased by, consumers as a bidi or beedie.
"Nicotine vapor product" means any noncombustible product containing nicotine that employs a heating element, power source, electronic circuit, or other electronic, chemical, or mechanical means, regardless of shape or size, that can be used to produce vapor from nicotine in a solution or other form. "Nicotine vapor product" includes any electronic cigarette, electronic cigar, electronic cigarillo, electronic pipe, or similar product or device and any cartridge or other container of nicotine in a solution or other form that is intended to be used with or in an electronic cigarette, electronic cigar, electronic cigarillo, electronic pipe, or similar product or device. "Nicotine vapor product" does not include any product regulated by the FDA under Chapter V (21 U.S.C. § 351 et seq.) of the Federal Food, Drug, and Cosmetic Act.
"Tobacco product" means any product made of tobacco and includes cigarettes, cigars, smokeless tobacco, pipe tobacco, bidis, and wrappings. "Tobacco product" does not include any nicotine vapor product, alternative nicotine product, or product that is regulated by the FDA under Chapter V (21 U.S.C. § 351 et seq.) of the Federal Food, Drug, and Cosmetic Act.
"Wrappings" includes papers made or sold for covering or rolling tobacco or other materials for smoking in a manner similar to a cigarette or cigar.

If you are still awake after all of that, you better be 21 before you light up.
Now there are plenty of reasons for what was the cash cow of the commonwealth to have so many restrictions on consumption but you can read the medical information and note all the ‘No Smoking’ signs but this raise in age means you are not old enough to smoke.
My mother used to give the excuse of “You are not old enough”. Now the government is my mother.
Federal law requires someone to be at least 21 to buy a handgun from a licensed dealer, but only 18 in most places to buy a long gun. In some states — mostly rural places with a strong tradition of hunting — you can buy a rifle at the age of 14 or 16.
Learner’s Permit must be held for 180 days and learner must be 16 and 90 days before getting a restricted license. If the learner is younger than 18 years of age on receiving the driver's license, it is considered probationary.
A Minimum Legal Drinking Age (MLDA) of 21 saves lives and protects health. Minimum Legal Drinking Age (MLDA) laws specify the legal age when an individual can purchase or publicly consume alcoholic beverages. The MLDA in the United States is 21 years.
Age of Consent across the United States. The legal age of consent varies from 16 to 18 years old from state to state across the United States. In some states, a “close in age exemption” exists to decriminalize consensual sex between two individuals who are both under the age of consent.
Tattooing of a Minor - Establishes that it is illegal to tattoo anyone under age 18. Body Piercing of a Minor - Requires prior written consent of a minor’s parent or legal guardian to perform body piercing on anyone under age 18.
So what is the legal age to become an adult?
Coming of age is a young person’s transition from being a child to being an adult. It continues through the teenage years of life. The certain age at which this transition takes place changes in society, as does the nature of the change. It can be a simple legal convention or can be part of a ritual or spiritual event, as practiced by many societies. In the past, and in some societies today, such a change is associated with the age of sexual maturity (early adolescence), especially menarche and spermaceti. In others, it is associated with an age of religious responsibility. Particularly in western societies, modern legal conventions that stipulate points in late adolescence or early adulthood (most commonly 18-21 when adolescents are generally no longer considered minors and are granted the full rights and responsibilities of an adult) are the focus of the transition. In either case, many cultures retain ceremonies to confirm the coming of age, and stories that are told in film are called coming-of-age films. And likewise there are also coming-of-age comics.

The age of majority is the threshold of adulthood as recognized or declared in law. It is the moment when minors cease to be considered such and assume legal control over their persons, actions, and decisions, thus terminating the control and legal responsibilities of their parents or guardian over them. Most countries set the age of majority at 18. The word majority here refers to having greater years and being of full age as opposed to minority, the state of being a minor. The law in a given jurisdiction may not actually use the term “age of majority”. The term typically refers to a collection of laws bestowing the status of adulthood. The age of majority does not necessarily correspond to the mental or physical maturity of an individual.
Age of majority should not be confused with the age of maturity, age of sexual consent, marriageable age, school-leaving age, drinking age, driving age, voting age, smoking age, gambling age, etc., which each may be independent of and set at a different age from the age of majority.
Although a person may attain the age of majority in a particular jurisdiction, they may still be subject to age-based restrictions regarding matters such as the right to vote or stand for elective office, act as a judge, and many others.
At an age where 9/10’s of those laws have been broken, wonders why not make the age restriction to suck in nicotine smoke about 50? Working in a coalmine about 60? Chemical or nuclear plant about 65? Joining the army about 70? If you job is nothing more than collecting bullets, why should the young suffer?
As we all know, if you tell a kid they can’t do that, they will try to do that. These experiences is what is called “growing up”. No matter what legislative restrictions are written, our species like speed, aggressiveness, violence, mind alternation and sex. No matter how many laws are passed, we will find a way. Look at prohibition.
The cost of a pack of cigarettes is about $5.50 or so for 20 cigs, but the price has stopped people from partaking. Those label warnings on each and every pack are ignored.
Pubescence or pre-teen is the age for exploring drink, drugs, smoking, sex and all the other restricted activities. Some may be more difficult to acquire, but this is a time for adventure.
Every day in the news there are reports of people dying of cancer but no one stops the production of cigarettes. Every day in the news there are reports of sexual assaults but the church is not the sanctuary. Every day there are shootings but no one stops making bullets.
“Hey buddy, you got a match?”

Wednesday, February 20, 2019

Greek Society



Fraternities and sororities, or Greek letter organizations (GLOs) (collectively referred to as “Greek life”) are social organizations at colleges and universities. A form of the social fraternity, they are prominent in the United States, with small numbers of mostly non-residential fraternities existing in France, Canada, and the Philippines. Similar organizations exist in other countries as well, including the Studentenverbindungen of German-speaking countries.
Similar, but much less common, organizations also exist for secondary school students, as do fraternal orders for other adults. In modern usage, “Greek letter organization” is often synonymous with the terms “fraternity” and “sorority”. Two additional types of fraternities, professional fraternities and honor societies, incorporate some limited elements of traditional fraternity organization, but are generally considered a different type of association. Traditional fraternities of the type described in this article are often called “social fraternities”.
Generally, membership in a fraternity or sorority is obtained as an undergraduate student but continues, thereafter, for life. Some of these organizations can accept graduate students as well as undergraduates, per constitutional provisions.
Individual fraternities and sororities vary in organization and purpose, but most share five common elements:
1. Secrecy
2. Single-sex membership
3. Selection of new members on the basis of a two-part vetting and probationary process known as rushing and pledging
4. Ownership and occupancy of a residential property where undergraduate members live
5. A set of complex identification symbols that may include Greek letters, armorial achievements, ciphers, badges, grips, hand signs, passwords, flowers, and colors
Fraternities and sororities engage in philanthropic activities; host parties; provide “finishing” training for new members, such as instruction on etiquette, dress, and manners; and create networking opportunities for their newly graduated members.
I personally was never a member of a fraternity. No, let me take that back. I was in the Boy Scouts.
The ‘clubbing’ experience and the pressure to join and participate was constant through life, but I avoided as much as I could. To wear a patch or a badge or a ring or a tie clip did not indicate who I was. Guess I’m not a team member?
I think it got serious in junior high. There was a conscious effort to divide kids into groups. Perhaps a bonding experience of like talents, skills or just position in the society?
Become a cheerleader? Become a football player? Become a member of the orchestra? Join the Science Club or the German Club or be labeled as part of the school academic political structure. Still not sure what the Key Club did?
We were kids and wanted to be popular and to be popular had to find that slot to fit in.
If you didn’t decide to join (or be drafted) into the armed services after high school, university was posed to present the Greek Society.
Full pledged off campus houses with rowdy parties and legendary misbehavior were available if you qualified. Of course you had to pass the hazing test (much like the military) and be belittled and demeaned into servitude until you got you position to pass along the same punishment to the next class.
The camaraderie formed bonds that lasted until death with people who were strangers but experienced behavior unbecoming to intelligence. If you wear the same color sweater or hat as me, you are accepted.
Of course it was all about the boys! The girls put down their pom-poms and gathered into Greek (feminine style) Societies like typing and cooking class.
Following sport teams, fast drivers, bulky brutes, singers, writers, etc. form their own societies. There is a monetary economy dealing in merchandise to feed the need to show the fraternity.
So my question is why not have a fraternity for Boys & Girls? Like everything else in our culture we are jelling into no-gender identity. It certainly would make ‘frat’ houses (or submarines) more interesting.

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Cashless Conundrum



It seems that old hard cash that you toiled for is now becoming worthless. A Washington or a Jefferson or a Jackson or a Lincoln or a Grant or a Benjamin isn’t worth carrying around in your wallet.
 It is just worthless paper for now your phone pays everything. Be sure to keep it charged.
Handing someone a paper bill now has to be inspected in the light and possible scanned for there is counterfeit scratch out there. It is as bazaar as asking for your ID when you look older than dirt. Hold onto the wall while being frisked by a TSA wand.
While it was always a problem when merchants started charging $3.96 for an item and you didn’t have enough pennies in your pocket and had to break a bill to then fill your pockets with change. The cost will possibility be three point nine six point zero.
There was a time when, if you didn’t have the correct amount, a handshake promised the merchant you’d return with the balance. Otherwise that be stealing!
Still stuck in the plastic version of representing wealth for purchase but I see the movement onto phone payment. I’ll have to smarten up my phone. Is there an app for that?
There is a bowl on my dresser with leftover change. Pennies, nickels, dimes, quarters, even a silver dollar that just sits there. Coins are forged and molded metal that is today worthless. Don’t want to be that guy who holds up the line counting out ninety-six cents. It is almost as bad as writing a check.
When is the tattoo bar code on your arm pass for your private identity and monetary worth?

Saturday, February 16, 2019

Why Don’t You Podcast?



Really?
A podcast or generically netcast, is an episodic series of digital audio or video files which a user can download in order to listen to. It is often available for subscription, so that new episodes are automatically downloaded via web syndication to the user’s own local computer, mobile application, or portable media player.
The files distributed are in audio format, but may sometimes include other file formats such as PDF or EPUB. Videos, which are shared following a podcast model, are sometimes called video podcasts or vodcasts.
The generator of a podcast maintains a central list of the files on a server as a web feed that can be accessed through the Internet. The listener or viewer uses special client application software on a computer or media player, known as a podcatcher, which accesses this web feed, checks it for updates, and downloads any new files in the series. This process can be automated to download new files automatically, which may seem to users as though new episodes are broadcast or “pushed” to them. Files are stored locally on the user’s device, ready for offline use. There are many different mobile applications available for people to use to subscribe and to listen to podcasts. Many of these applications allow users to download podcasts or to stream them on demand as an alternative to downloading. Many podcast players (apps as well as dedicated devices) allow listeners to skip around the podcast and control the playback speed.
Some have labeled podcasting as a converged medium bringing together audio, the web, and portable media players, as well as a disruptive technology that has caused some individuals in the radio business to reconsider established practices and preconceptions about audiences, consumption, production, and distribution. Podcasts are usually free of charge to listeners and can often be created for little to no cost, which sets them apart from the traditional model of “gate-kept” media and production tools. Podcast creators can monetize their podcasts by allowing companies to purchase ad time, as well as via sites such as Patreon, which provides special extras and content to listeners for a fee. Podcasting is very much a horizontal media form – producers are consumers, consumers may become producers, and both can engage in conversations with each other.
Hey, this is the hip new way to communicate your ideas. Your words can be downloaded or streamed through those smarty pants phones while kids are walking or jogging or driving or eating or sleeping or… (Do they ever turn those things off?) Nobody reads type any more. Can they comprehend complete sentences? Can they contemplate theories, hypothesis or thesis?
Usually a podcasts has a theme. Business, politics, games, wellness, love, etc. and some are about “What I ate today” or “What Mary is doing”. Either an expert or narcissi thinking other people will want to listen to. If a podcasts is just air filler like TV or a re-enforcement of a hip lifestyle, the sound needs to have a clean ‘radio voice’ or, if video is included, a young pretty face. Background music or sound effects increase the experience while the levels need to be monitored and adjust for best quality.
If you’ve seen any of my videos on YouTube know I’m very basic. I have enough software to do all that stuff, but just not interested. Even my attempts of music on soundcloud or revebnation are usually one-take wonders.
Beside I like to type what I think at the time. Few re-reads and no editing (obviously) for it is the way I think and talk. Much of the concepts are footnoted with Wikipedia notation on an explanation of details with my thoughts on top. Some writings are personal recollections and some writings are thoughts with a twist. That twist is for the reader to contemplate without a suggestion to an answer.
This Blog also doesn’t follow any direction other than the thoughts of the day. Today might be about eating and tomorrow might be about news of the moment. Yesterday might have been a word or a song or just an experience that needed to be written down, but instead of a private diary or a journal, I post it for the world.
Some ranting like these are sponsored and if enough contacts, money can be made.
Some people have had good (or bad) responses that have led to interesting conversations. These are just words, ideas, thoughts from one person lost in the mass of electronic space.
It is Just Another Life.

A Rose


Now that Valentine is over for another year, the stinky socks are back on the couch, the dog is farting and scratching and the cat hairballs it in the corner. The dishes are piled in the sink and the trashcan is over flowing.
Even picking out the nougats leftovers from that red heart shaped box to swallow down with a flat beer shows life is back to normal.
The romance is over until next year or unless you get in trouble.
A single rose is always an icebreaker.
When the cold shoulder is beginning the chill the mood, a surprise single rose can make the heart flutter and you are in like flint.
Cards are informal, candy is fattening, jewelry is expensive; but a single rose is the most romantic.
If one rose is good, how about two? Only works if each is handing out one to the other. 
The next move is three long stemmed red roses in a thin vase with a ribbon around it. That can be placed and appreciated in any room and is perfect for the cat to knock over.
It has become customary for rose bouquets to consist of one dozen roses. They can be used to represent perfect beauty or to express our complete love and gratitude. One dozen red roses have become the definitive symbol for true love.
It is best to be delivered so they can find the perfect spot. A dozen roses is quite a large arrangement that even the cat won’t attack. Whether the centerpiece on the dining room table or over the mantelpiece, a dozen roses are a focal point of any room.
Learned this rose trick early in life. Every mother’s day, I’d have a rose boutonnière to wear to church. At cotillions the custom was to hand a single rose to a girl for a dance. Even if she wore a corsage with her smelling salts in it, the rose would be gracefully accepted, thorns and all.
Don’t remember my parents every passing roses around but they were old married folks. Not having a green thumb, there were no plants around until…
To thank her for a memorable evening, I sent a dozen roses to her workplace as a reminder of my exhausted appreciation.
The one-night-stand turned into a two-night-stand and then a three-night. 
So I upped my game and sent TWO-dozen roses. Two-dozen roses are the size of boxwood bush. That many roses make a room smell like a funeral parlor.
A year later, roses were being planted in the yard in every shape and color. If I’d ever get in trouble I’d just walk outside and trim my forgiveness.

Wednesday, February 13, 2019

Palentine


I know yesterday was Galentine’s Day and today is suppose to be Valentine’s Day, but what about the rest who are celebrating the holiday without romance?
Get together with a buddy or a pal and show your appreciation for each other without concern of getting laid.
Toast each other, share some chocolate covered strawberries, and tell some distant stories of far away relationships that were romantic and maybe some Valentine tales that were memorable.
Could tell the tale of flying a rainbow kite at the beach with the seagulls then being rained on by ham juice or walking to the gazebo above the river for a picnic at the plantation. Could tell of the walk to feeding the ducks while the pipes in the hotel froze or that quiet night watching the meteor showers in the wet grass with the deer. Could tell of the daylong hike to get a rake and ask for an extra seat at Olive Garden. Could tell of the several block hearts path from the bus stop to the house but no one will believe that.
There will be no flowers or heart shaped boxes of chocolate. There will be no Hallmark cards or ‘Sweethearts’ candy or silly sweaters. There will be no handholding or longing looks or deep kisses.
February 14th will be a day to spend with my pal.

Tuesday, February 12, 2019

They Were Lying



Fake news or just bad stocking, a story ran about missing Valentine candy.

No ‘Sweethearts’ candy
this Valentine’s Day
after company
goes out of business
Micah Walker, Detroit Free Press Published 7:39 a.m. ET Jan. 23, 2019 |

For those who struggle to find the right words to say to their significant other this Valentine’s Day, there will be one less option this year to express those feelings.

‘Sweethearts’ will be missing from the shelves this year, as the company that makes the candy, the New England Confectionary Co., went out of business.

According to candystore.com, the conversation heart candies are the most popular confection for the holiday, pulling in $1.8 billion in sales. The candies are known for classic sayings such as, “Be Mine” and “Cutie Pie.” 
This year, sales for the conversation hearts are expected to drop by more than 80 percent. 
Necco folded in July 2018 after operating for more than 100 years. Along with ‘Sweethearts’, the company produced Mary Janes, Necco Wafers and Clark bars. 
Panic buying ensued from shoppers in March 2018 after the news broke that Necco may be folding, with sales jumping more than 50 percent.
Round Hill Investments, who then sold the company to Spangler Candy Co. in September, later bought Necco in an auction. With only five months left until Valentine’s Day, Spangler did not have enough time to produce a large number of ‘Sweethearts’. 
You can still find the beloved candy now – but it will cost a pretty penny.
Amazon is selling boxes starting at $9, and on eBay, an eight-pack box of candies is going for $12. 
Oliver R. Chase invented a machine in 1847 to cut lozenges from wafer candy, similar to Necco Wafers, and started a candy factory.
Daniel Chase, Oliver’s brother, began printing sayings on the candy in 1866. He designed a machine that was able to press on the candy similar to a stamp. The candy was often used for weddings since the candies had witty saying such as: “Married in pink, he will take a drink”, “Married in White, you have chosen right”, and “Married in Satin, Love will not be lasting”.
The heart-shaped conversation candies to be called ‘Sweethearts’ got their start in 1901. Other styles were formerly produced such as lozenges, postcards, horseshoes, watches, and baseballs. As of 2010, the classic pastel candy formula is abandoned.
‘Sweethearts’ (also known as conversation hearts) are small heart-shaped sugar candies sold around Valentine’s Day. Each heart is printed with a message such as “Be Mine”, “Kiss Me”, “Call Me”, “Let's Get Busy”, or “Miss You”. The New England Confectionery Company, or Necco, previously also made by the Stark Candy Company, made sweethearts. Necco manufactured nearly 8 billion ‘Sweethearts’ per year. A similar type of candy is sold in the UK under the name ‘Love Hearts’.
For years, the Oak Brook-based candy-maker has produced the Brach’s brand of Valentine’s Day heart candy, known as ‘Conversation Hearts’.
‘Sweethearts’ are now softer candies with vivid colors and all new flavors, which are more intense and even a bit sourer. These new flavors include sour apple, strawberry, and “spring fresh.” Line extensions carrying the ‘Sweethearts’ brand include chocolates and sugar-free hearts.
To update itself for today’s texting times, Ferrara has given a face-lift to some of its hearts for the modern, acronym-savvy consumer. In addition to “Adorbz,” Brach’s hearts will also read, “Text me,” “BFF” and “TTYL” (Talk To You Later), among other sayings.
And perhaps the ‘Conversation Heart’ lasered with “LYMY” (Love you Miss You) can provide some solace to ‘Sweetheart’s’ die-hard fans.

But will the ‘Sweethearts’ purists convert?

Growing up, ‘Sweethearts’ were a February ritual at school. Even though we were just old enough to tie our shoelaces and tell time, holidays became class assignments. Christmas, Halloween, President’s Day, July 4th, New Year’s Day, Columbus Day, etc… all became daily or weekly lessons with parties and art projects and excuses for not learning trigonometry, civics, philosophy or sex ed.
On Valentine’s Day we would get red construction paper and cut out hearts with our round tip scissors and then write sweet notes to our parents to show what we had done in class that day. We would also be dealt a half dozen ‘Sweethearts’ to pass back and forth to other classmates.
We were too young to understand “Be Mine” or “Love You” or certainly “Kiss Me”. There were none that said, “Let’s Get It On” or “I Want You to..” “LOL”
Valentine’s Day was the only day these chalky colored dots of sugar were ever used because they just didn’t taste good. ‘Sweethearts’ were like eating medicine.

After the bankruptcy of Necco, Spangler Candy Company acquired the rights to the candy on September 21, 2018. Because of the change, ‘Sweethearts’ will not be sold for Valentine’s Day in 2019 but will be available in 2020.